IN TOUGH
Assoc Prof Dittakarn Boriboonhirunsarn
Girls, do you remember your first date? Of course, some do and some don't and some don't want to!
For any girl, her first date is like a great breakthrough in her life. Not only men, but women also put a lot of effort to impress their date. But that might not always be true. This is because of the fact that when a guy asks you for a date, it means you have already made a good impression.
So, what should girls do on their first date? Rather than making a good impression, the priority should be more about not making a mistake. Therefore, girls, you should be more focused on what not to do on your first date.
Let him be in charge
Yes, even with the very first question he may ask, "So, what would you like to do this evening?"
Men, although they already have the answers, usually ask such questions only to avoid making a mistake in planning something that you don't like, and the risk of rejection.
What to do then? Just answer him with a question like, "I'm not sure, what did you have in mind?" This is to maintain your receptive role and will set the tone that he is the man, and it is his job to plan an evening to please you.
Don't pay
Not for a meal, not for a movie ticket. Although most women usually insist to pay their part because they don't want to give the impression that they are selfish, but just don't do that. Doing so might inadvertently signal to your date that you are not interested in him. That's what men will perceive. Believe me, men are already prepared and no one plans to spend the least amount of money on his first date. So, girls, leave everything to him.
Don't have sex
Having sex on your first date is the biggest mistake you must not make, for any reason. There is no way you could possibly know the one you're dating with is "the right one" nor can you know whom you can trust. So, just be on the safe side.
Not having sex will not harm your relationship. Sex is not the right way to secure your relationship, instead it could be the fastest way to ruin a potentially great relationship. Every woman should realise that the more a man invests in something, the more he values it.
No matter what a man says, for any persuasive reasons, just say "no" when it comes to sex. That is the easiest and best way to avoid sex in any circumstance. Keep this in mind at all times and you will be happy you did so.
Now you are all set for your first date, understanding what mistakes you should avoid. So, be prepared and go out and enjoy it and make your first date one of your memorable moments.
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