IN TOUCH
Dr Dittakarn Boriboonhirunsarn
Are you one of those women who always envy other women who attract every man around? Have you ever wondered why some women are more attractive to men than others?
No matter what, if the answer is "yes", the following are simple ways that can help you out.
Smile
Smiling is the easiest thing a woman can do to make herself more attractive. It is more powerful than one might realise. Men often need a signal to know that it is safe to approach a lady. And, in this case, a smile is a good sign of acceptance.
A woman who smiles usually conveys an attitude of confidence and friendliness that makes it easier for men to be brave enough to approach her.
However, many women frequently hold their smiles because they fear that it could send men the wrong signal. While such approach may be safer, it could unintentionally make men think that you are someone who is overly cautious on starting a friendship.
Listen
Believe it or not, listening is much more powerful than talking. Men expect most women to enjoy talking and taking rather than listening. On the other hand, men are rarely listened to, at least not beyond a few minutes. Women may not know the fact that such a few minutes is all men really need.
Therefore, most men will be intrigued if they meet a woman who listens attentively to what they say. And, if she continues to listen and does not dominate the conversation, that's the kind of woman most men can't resist.
Dress femininely
Women need to show the right visual to mesmerise men. Many mistakenly believe that men only notice only women who dress beautifully, trendy and fashionably. But, that's not all what men want to see.
To be noticed by men, think colours, dresses and curves. Basically, men like a woman who has that soft and cuddly quality. This does not mean that women in pants or those who dress comfortably are not attractive. The thing is men just don't notice their feminine side as easily.
On the opposite, women in sexy dresses may be easily noticed but they often make most men think of "sex" instead of friendship or a serious relationship. She may have a soft side, but if men can't see it, they often don't know it exists.
So, remember that the more feminine a woman dresses, the more men she could attract.
Dr Dittakarn Boriboonhirunsarn is deputy dean of the Faculty of Medicine, Siriraj Hospital. He earned his PhD in epidemiology from the Johns Hopkins University. He can be reached at sidbr@mahidol.ac.th.
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