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[Adam]

What do you mean "keep your blood pure"?
To keep your blood pure, do you not itermarry with any one out of your race, or your country, or maybe a different shade of skin color. Which people may marry each other. Say like, can a Thai marry a Chinese or Arab, but not a European? Who's blood do you want to keep pure. This is the same favorite words of the Ku Klux Klan.

[Zemran]

Adam, The only way to respond to a troll is to ignore it. The comment did not contain any debate or arguement, just a jibe to get a response. Just like you said, it is what the KKK said and they were not dealing from a full deck (after all, where in the world is there such a thing as pure blood?). If you leave the comment it just looks stupid but if you respond you give him credability...

[Rooster]

I would think this is another foreign agitators who did not bring any concrete opinions to this forum. A coward would do this kind of thing without openly discuss about anything. csun = China Sun????

[Charlie Reeves]

I met my fiancee , by my best friend and his wife, it was sort of a blind date that started out over the internet and letters grew to phone calls, up to when I went to thailand for a week and a half and had a Buddist traditional engagement ceremony and white string ceremony. I had to pay a dowery of 10000 baht and buy grandmother a gold necklace and rings for my fiancee and I.
I had the time of my life. I met her family, only problem I realy had was the small language gap. She speaks ok english, but its a lot better then my Thai. We are working towards getting her a Fiancee visa. And so far we have no problems. I send her 50 dollars a month but am thinking about increasing that to about 150 because I consider her my wife and wish to take care of her. She never ever asked me for a dime. Even when i was over there I had to beg her to let me buy her anything, she thought I SPENT way to much. I am a very happy man, and I would recommend that if you want a good wife...dont go to bars or you will get a bar fly. I got lucky that my best friend and his wife, set me up with a family member. Please email me if there are any questions, I would love to chat .
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[Charlie Reeves]

I am a forang ..usa ..and I am a christian and I take graet offence in what you stated about Christain or non Buddist men being bad or mistreating Thai woman. That is to broad of a statement , I would agree that there are some very bad people out there. However My fiancee (thai) knows that I am not one of them. I would never lie a hand on any woman I feel that to do so you are not a man.
ThIS t can go both ways there are Thai woman that only want forang, for there money, incert bar fly here.
Further more I will not force my religion down any ones throat. My fiancee and I got blessed by a buddist monk, had a white string ceremony, and a promise ceremony and we feel that we will work together on helping support each others religions, I

[Charlie Reeves]

That is strange I never realy considerd, untill now my fiancee and I as a mix.

maybe im missing somethign here.

[Charlie Reeves]

Ira is correct in a way. The majority of men that do go to Thailand, go there for the sex trade. It is sad but true. And they make life so much worse and harder for those men like me that are truly in love with a Thai woman, and simply went to Thailand for all the right reasons.
Over all Thai woman are no different than any other woman. If a man is willing to realy and truly get to know one. Yes there are some cultural differences, but they make things more interesting. There is good and bad in all people and races. Ive been to Thailand, germany, korea, saudi, kuwait, mexico, canada and all over the united states. Woman are the same every where, they just want to be loved and respected.

[Charlie Reeves]

your one lost and confused soul.

[mike norfolk]

hi i wish you the best of luck with your girlfriend, although i cant understand the small dowry, seems you got a bargian. i live in the north of thailand and own a farm there i only met my wife one year ago, she worked in a shopping complex. she is the most loving little pet iv ever had the pleasure of living with. we are now in the uk until she has our baby , only ten weeks to go then its off back to thailand to settle down. hope to speak to you soon mate and if any one out there requires any info on achieving the getting of thai uk visas talk to me first, i will probably save you a lot of heart ache and expence. regards all mike norfolk.

[bil bobby]

Hi there,

My girlfriend and I are about to apply for a Fiancé visa early next year and would appreciate if you could help us in any way with the following questions;


1. Do we need to prove our engagement? (If so how do we do this as we are not formally engaged as such, although I have bought her an engagement ring.)

2. What documents do we need to present to UK embassy in BKK? (We already gave them a mountain of documents for this particular ‘tourist visa’ she is currently on, do you think we need to provide them all again? And if so, is there any other particular documents required as we will be applying for a fiancé visa?)

3. What questions is the embassy staff likely to ask her? (Her English is good, she has no problem in answering in all truth, but she is a little apprehensive as to any questions she may need to be prepared for.)

4. What is the Fee? Can she pay be cashier cheque or does it have to be cash? (I appreciate this is more than likely to increase by the time we apply.)

5. How long for the interview? Does she need to get to the embassy early as before and queue? (for her current visa like I said earlier although we got there at 5.30 am she was in and out within forty five minutes of the doors opening at 7.30am. We picked up her visa at 3pm three days later.) Is this the case also with a fiancé visa?

6. For her to get all this information so as not to waste time and not to mention lots of money its important for her to get as much as possible. Do you know if she goes to the embassy to gain the above information if she will have to go in the morning or afternoon? (everything I’m sure you will agree is very vague to say the least with Thai/farang relationships when applying for visas) Do you know of any friends or web sites that can help us?

7. Someone mentioned to us somewhere along the way we need to have had a relationship two years, is this correct? ( We will have known each other two years this coming February.

If all fails we plan to marry in Thailand in August 06 and go down another road of visa form filling (can’t wait!)