stereotype towards interracial marriage in Thailand

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Postby Aussie Dave on Fri Feb 03, 2006 3:30 pm

CHS jan 1st ............Thank you, your comments are close to my heart.
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Postby kris on Fri Feb 03, 2006 11:37 pm

CHS I totally agree with you in regards to the pedophiles and I believe the Thai government should take a stronger stand in fighting this issue. Pedophiles in the US have been arrested and found to have in their possession pictures of child pornography they or someone else have gotten from thailand and some other asian countries. The one thing that sickened me when i found out is parents selling their children into prostitution, even when some of these parents have used the excuse the men said they would send my child to school they should know this to be a lie as so many children have suffered through this fate over the years that these parents would have heard about this. I dont believe that pleading ignorance should let these parents off without being punished for their actions as if parents are not made liable for it by the police and the court systems it will just give other parents the freedom to continue this without fear of recourse.
I donot believe all thai men cheat as I met many doting married thai men who reall loved their wives. I believe that being faithful is to be judged by each men individually not by religion or race. So if she is in love with a thai man they should be given a chance as love doesnt know age, color or race :)
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Postby sweetirku on Fri Apr 28, 2006 12:55 pm

Hi Chaicharn,
I understand how you feel about it but I think Thai people should consider to take the blame started from the society itself, families, and then change their mentalities. Those young naive girls have never been taught nor told. They don't know and they just do what they think it is the way to get out from this timid society. Parents never talked to them. People around them ignoring to talk about it and yet judging their attitudes. Worst thing is Thai people don't be reasonable about it and blame it on old farangs. Why don't Thai people start to think outside Thailand a little bit then they can compare and think of some issues more maturely. You know poverty is also pushing people to do things they don't wanna do so they have to \\ //// it all in or may be change themselves and say "I don't give a damm about what others may think 'coz am getting no attention from Thai people or Thai men."
I am a Thai woman too. Don't get me wrong that I support these kinds of acts but I think Thai men have problems to chase women. They find it hard to just say to a woman that she looks beautiful today. And their types of women are also limited. I don't think that there are lots of Thai men are willing to know that women if she is bit dark skinned, or butchy looking. They target on innocent looking, light skinned, no shape to skinny type. And strong personality women are not working for Thai men.
I think Thai men have to be more mature.
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Postby thai woman on Wed Dec 06, 2006 5:50 am

to sweetirku
touché! you 're absolutely right about most thai men and their attitude. That's not entirely their fault regarding our social and cultural norms. Even though some seem changing in this 21st century ,a big revolution ,not evolution, is still needed in our society today.
We 're brought up to respect our seniors (age,rank,social or financial position).
Thai men seeing several girls are often admired as charming Khun Paen ,a famous hero in thai litterature ,whereas good thai women worth to be married must be a virgin, soft and sweet,(blindly) obedient ,good- looking and much better if they're from rich or noble family . Thai men 're raised to find a saint not a wife.
How about the women who don't possess those demanding quality?
All seniors are not always good nor always right or Thailand must have been in more progress with less corruption.
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Postby a farang on Wed Dec 06, 2006 8:19 pm

That is why we farang men seek for a Thai wife.
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Postby thai woman on Thu Dec 07, 2006 12:02 pm

So ,you are one of those who function with their hormones rather than their heads.
What criteria do you use to buy dog or horse? Pedigree one,certainly.
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Postby a farang on Fri Dec 08, 2006 12:40 pm

Is there one who has head here.
If not one, the one submissive, well tamed and beaded, work more to a husband.
Why do we have to find a western immitate here ?. In Rome, try on Pedro, not taking Thai lazy bomb over there.
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Postby thai woman on Thu Dec 14, 2006 1:02 pm

That' s exactly what I guess ! You must be a survivor of Roman Empire ,that's why you 're confused about "wife" and "slave". Those two words 're completely different and the abolition of slavery does exist,you know that ? .
Today men and women live under mutual respect and equality and thai women also have brain as italian or any other races in the world. We call it" progress "not" immitate".
You had better wake up and forget your old days ,grandpa !
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Postby Victor on Mon Oct 29, 2007 9:56 pm

Hey Bro!!
Am a black African studying in the US and currently dating a Thai gal!! I read with a lot of disdain your plight as a mixed race Kid and more speciffically the fact that one of your parents was black!!
Is the Thai society that discriminative towards black folks as to view as being part of the lowest cadre of the human race?
I intend to visit Thailand and seemingly i will have to brace myself for a lynch mob simply because am dating a Thai gal!!'
My advice to all those Asian men out there busy bashing males from the other races for dating their women is this: Dont hate the player, hate the game.
There is nothing as sweet, honest, gentle and loving as a Thai gal and unless you Asian men got off your butts and started competing, the stakes are already too high and the winners are sharing the jack pot to your expression of disgust and objection.
Me and my galfriend are gonna have the next tiger woods equal as a result of the culmination of our relationship into one of lifetime companionship.
Whoever thinks that black is inferior should start looking beyond their noses!!!
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im not too dark

Postby katie on Wed Nov 07, 2007 8:15 pm

(-_-) i am not too dark , just normal thai tan skin .. not like isan or shouthern people. well, skin tell you nothing but here are more than 90% tan skin women who are positute.. sorry but sometimes the true hurts. dont worry , not all.

but come to pattaya and check good if what i say is truth or not. then even your good girlfriend who look so sexy and nice one, check good what she did or what she do BEHIND you. in Thailand we can know suddenly who is from that kind of place.. just listen to the words they use and the way of thinking and way of living their life.

in thailand we says ' accent tell the native language, habit tells about your family'
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