From a Thai Woman to You -- All Farangs

[Brian]

Lisa,

Your words about dirty blood really broke my heart. All life is a miracle, it is precious and sacred. Maybe at some point you could seek therapy regarding your feelings toward your conception?

All life is a miracle, and I don't claim to know you or your situation, or be smart enough to know the words that will make you see what you need to see to not hate yourself, your origins and your circumstances.

This will be something to heal and grow inside yourself as you get older and move forward with your life, fall in love, marry and have a family of your own. I feel that perhaps this could negatively affect your future relationships unless you heal these negative feelings. If you don't seek therapy of some sort, then the self image will shape you into someone who feels that you cannot be loved, that you are forever inferior. It might affect your relationship with your husband and children.

Maybe you could come full circle by joining an organisation that helps Thai girls find work that doesn't involve prostitution. Maybe in working to help others you will find healing and peace. I bet that this healing and peace, above all money and material comfort, has been your mother's life dream for you.

Because in American culture, to be successful is to help others. That is the America that I am proud of. Your 'dirty blood' pumps through your heart and is as precious as the //////'s blood. No one can say that their blood is more special than anothers,, because we do not give ourselves life, nor do our parents because it was given to them. That fire was started in the mystery of life that some people call God. But that 'Mystery' gave you a life to live, and gave you blood that is not dirty but sacred.

Go full circle, and make your life a blessing to others.

Your words about having dirty blood broke my heart, and I hope you recieve the graces you need to realize that no matter what circumstances brought you to be, that you exist is miracle enough.

Heal and grow and move forward,

Shalom
Brian

[sai]

Me too,,, Thaiwoman,,i dont want money from farang,,if i love someone,,money is not important for me...farang have wrong subject from Thaiwoman ,,,all,,

[swedeman]

Very sweet post na.

My advise to all farangs is, stay away from Thai women....ask yourself why so many women here are obsessed with finding a farang? There is only one reason, money and the incredible conviction Thai women have that ALL farangs are so rich. They soon get disappointed.
All this talk about isaan girls or uneducated girls, sorry it' s just not true.
A friend of mine made a test at Emporium. It took him 38 minutes to get mobile phone numbers from TEN different girls whom he had never met before.
Then they say, Thai man very bad, have many wife, hit woman.
And farangs are better right? I don' t know ONE farang here who does not cheat on his girlfriend or wife, not one.....
I think farangs and thai girls are like PC:s and McIntoshes, just not compatible and that' s it.
We just dont think the same way and do not appreciate the same things.
If you get in to this game just take the consequences, it ain' t gonna work.

[Brighton]

swedeman , I absolutely agree with you , but the problem is with Thai women who don't believe me or you, or perhaps those women are so desperate that they insist on going through the painful and futile experience.
Westerners are always for a cheap and easy bargain. They easily find scores of preys among Thai girls, so desperate and easily fooled by deceitful sweet words and promises of a bright life and future to her and her family.
To all Thai women I say : "A tyrant Thaiman is much better than an angel Westerner ". This has been proven thousands of times .

[Stevo]

Gday swedeman,
Mate you really sound bitter and twisted!
What happened you get done over by a Thai Lady. Or like most farangs over here you expect that money can buy whatever you want. NOW. Or is the classic age gap difference?
I have only been living an married to a Thai lady for five years so I dont pretend to know everything. But having only 2 years difference between me and the mrs helps. When I meet my wife I didnt square her way and make sure she meet my "requirments" like most blokes do over here. I actually fell in love with my wife.
You may want to actually live over here, and learn the culture rather than come over for your anual hoilday expecting all Thai ladys to drop everything becaues your in town. Then you may find that Thais are not all the same. Sure they are if you hang out in dingy sh*t house bars which you seem to frequent mate.
By the way I have a list of mates back in Aust that have been done over by money sucking westerners.So money hungry sheilas are everywhere.
Not having a go at you mate, just open your eyes and learn to relax and take the whole Thai experience in. Not just trying to satsify your own ego Cheers, Stevo.

[swedeman]

Stevo,

You sound like all those farangs who found the different one. If you are happy good for you. Now what you have in common with a thai woman from a totally different culture (or lack of culture) remains to be understood. Then one has to ask oneself, why do you all happily married farangs have to come here to get a wife, why couldn' t you find one in Australia or whereever you come from. Coz they don' t cook or clean or coz the normal women want a career, own income etc.
And fyi I do not frequent bargirls or buy sex and furthermore I live here.

[Ian]

Well said Stevo - but the fact remains that Thailand's anti-foreigner laws massively encourage scams by Thai wives.

[kris]

How can you men sit and blame the women for ripping the men off? If older men that pay these women to have a sexual relationship with them and then believe the lines the women give them about love and faithfulness it is their own fault for getting ripped off. They knew the womens profession when they met them, do they actually believe they are the first men they ever had a relationship with? How many farang men lie to the prostitutes? Saying they are not married and have never found the right woman until they met them lol Thai women for centuries have been seen as lower then men and that they are to look after their men and the thai prostitutes are doing just that. If a fat old farang is paying a young thai prostitute for her time and she tells him he is handsome and good in bed the men are the dumb ones for believing it. As prostitution is illegal and these men are breaking the law on foreign soil who are they going to complain to? As a police official myself if I ever had a man come and tell me a prostitute //// to him and he gave her extra money because of it I would laugh so hard lol

[kris]

Lisa in my line of work I observe closely into details of a persons verbal or written way of communicating. I was wondering were you born in the US and did you receive all your school levels in the US? I ask this as I have many thai friends that have learned to write and speak in English and you write just like them. Your communication skills in English writing make me question if the posts you have submitted are based on fact or fabrication. Sorry if my post is not of other posters ideals but I just wanted to post my observation.

[Daung Dao]

kris (Nov. 03),
What' s your point ?

I do not know 'Lisa' personally. But reading her postings I picture herself of a nice-, kind-hearted young lady who is royal to her adopted land- US.

It seems she came to US at a young age at the time when her mother married an American.
She obviously received her college degree in the US. At present, she lives and works here too.

She has little to do with Thailand. Except the time when her mother took her there. Those trips were a nightmare for her.

I wish Lisa a happy and joyful future !