To all foreign embassies, Visa to Thai born children

[worried]

Thesedays many Thai born children brought by their mother to foreign husbands in foreign lands are reportedly dumped or seriously abused, mentally and physically,

All embassies must report immediately to Thai authority, of any visa applications of Thai born children.

Thai authority must not issue passport to children without the presence of two biological father and mother.

This is serious social problem as Sin Sot receiving is now becoming 'Big Free Money Taking business" widely exploited by bad mothers and grand parents of Isan region.

If any one want to marry Isan girl, refuse Sin Sot. If it is too much forced, Do not marry.
They will sell the woman again out of you.

[a farang from New York]

Recently I was told by my Thai wife (I met her in a Hong Kong club) that she had an affair with a Thai men and has a 12 years old daughter and she asked me to adopt this grown girl as her step father. I am merely 32 years old man.

I felt meserable but I have deep sympathy in her confession of hard life of her young days (I wonder if her statement was true or not because her eldest brother-in-law, a Japanese man was blocked to talk to me everytime I visited on her old mother, brother and sisters. In fact I wanted to talk with him about our marriage problem and listen to him how to manage his. He speaks well English and run his own business in Bangkok).

I am sad to see that she even try to have her friends divorced from Thai husbands and remarry with American men.
Do I have to suspect her as the paid agent by doing so ?.

My parents, brother and sisters initially accepted her when we married but now all shunned her away as my savings have been dwindled. Language and culture barriers are others which limits to make good family.
I refused to have child with her and now I have to have 12 years old grown daughter.

What shall I do with this woman ?

[chris masterson]

Your tale is experienced daily and you undoubtedly feel confused. Stay with her, adopt the child, keep spending your cash and see what happens - That is one choice. Another choice is to wake up and accept you've been taken for a ride. Get over it and get out. If you want another opinion, then the least you can do is to get proper information from your brother in law - then you can decide for yourself.

[Peter]

Divorce! Leave the horrible woman!

[an experienced]

To American Embassy,

The embassy consulates muct be extremely careful to check why so many Thai females want to go to USA.

The prospects to go, seems so many unnecessary or prematured divorses to be expedited today.

Many of 'successful Thai female entries into USA are the direct triggers to call more entries as some of them turn to be "marriage agents" or at least, "successful cases of Thai female".

They spread the complete faked stories like "They are treated by new husband like Cinderella" or " Queen" and enjoy everyday shopping like rich Madam Smith.
Also they spread rumours that all adopted children enjoy "free education with English" and educated like "The upper class of Bangkok poeple".

[Rooster]

With the current GREEN CARD system, it is not so easy for any foreign women to trig American men with temperary relationship. The green card can be taken away from any foreign women if she is not fulling her obligations in the marriage. There are phases and years before she could obtain a permanent green card. Even, the naturalized American citizenship could be taken away if the individual is not acting according to the laws.

[Rooster]

Yes, Peter. This New Yorker needs to dump this witch as soon as possible since she is dishonest and deceitful in their relationship. There are plenty of good Thai women if he is truely looking for a Thai wife.

[a farang in new york]

Thank you so much everyone here,
I found I loved my wife deeply and no way for this mother and young daughter to go if I give up. My father advised me to keep them and follow what I feel good and what I trust.
I tell her to be good mother like any other mothers in USA or Thailand. I hope she will understand me someday.

[GGT]

Urgent message for all Bloggers!!!
Stop dating and marrying poor, uneducated, dependant and desperate woman. There are so many Thai woman that are financially secure and smart. I am amazed to hear some peoples stories. There only looking for a free ride.

[Matthew]

a farang in New York

My friend, I took a long time to decide to write you.

The day you met this woman, your life became trashed. Had you spent some time in Thailand before marrying her, you would have known what signs to look for. However, now it is too late for that.

But it is not too late for you to get out of the relationship. You state that you love her. You must realise that most certainly she does not love you, and never did. She is a typical Thai treasure hunter, and you were the sucker she happened to meet who fell for her nonsense hook line and sinker. You are about to join the hundreds of thousands of foreigners who have discovered that to their cost.

Please don't be a martyr, she will dump you as soon as your money runs out anyway, just WAKE UP.