Can't take it anymore
Re: Can't take it anymore
trojan wrote:I'm curious to know if anyone feels they can't take anymore of the lack of freedom of speech and corruption in Thailand.
Maybe you've already packed up and moved on or are seriously contemplating it because of the above reasons or even know people that have left for similar reasons.
Personally I've seriously considered it because I feel like I should take a stand in some way and I'm also concerned about raising my child in this kind of enviroment. The thing that stops me is that I love Thailand far more than my native England.
Just curious if its just me or not and if I'm concerning myself too much with something that isn't really my business.
I'd especially like to hear the views of genuine long term expats. Thanks.
Living in Thailand requires some major adjustments.
The first rule is to remember that you are and will always be a farang. You are tolerated but not really accepted.
The second rule to remember is that you have no rights. In any dispute the Thai will win 99.99% of the time.
The third rule to remember is that you should enjoy those things you like, avoid conflicts and those area that make you uncomfortable and visit your home country from time to time. You can enjoy Thailand but it is not England.
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overhaul38 - Posts: 37
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Re: Can't take it anymore
I'm 78 years old, married to a Thai lady and while living here, I've tried the best I can to become part of the community...
I teach English at the local school on a voluntary basis, provide for quite a few of our village needs and fit in quite well yet after nine years, I have no security of tenure here - nor do I look like getting any.
I confided in a close well educated Thai friend and asked him why such a situation was allowed to continue and was shocked when he replied:
"Ian, Thais love money farangs spend and the expertise they bring but resent them living living permanently here. They'd rather they go home however, as far as a lot of Thais are concerned, they're seen as necessary evils". shock:
I can imagine the outcry if such an attitude was shown to Thais who've married Australians and relocated to my country
Furthermore after two years, Thai spouses are granted full Australian citizenship and God knows, the social benefits they receive there far exceeds anything they'd get in Thailand.
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Ian Wensor - Posts: 49
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Re: Can't take it anymore
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needchange - Posts: 12
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Re: Can't take it anymore
trojan wrote:I'm curious to know if anyone feels they can't take anymore of the lack of freedom of speech and corruption in Thailand.
this are accepted facts by the mass!
to be honest, it slows down economy and the construction of the future dramatically, and iam VERY suprised that none seems to have a sight for what is after the period they "rule" ...
most peoples arround here have a very strong "mai pen rai" attitude it will take at least 2 Generations to change this, and i dont think anyone even plan to do anything about it.
i dont see any disantvatage to raise childrens here, since thailand is a very family based country,
with teachings of local sourroundings added with common sense and awareness of what is happen children raised here will have the benefit of knowing both sides of how things are and can be. in the future this can be a benefit for childrens since they can handle the things happens here and also be smart enough to do it better or simply take the good choices.
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