Like I have said many times men should think with the right head lol I heard a few stories of men meeting bargirls for a few days or a week and thinking it was love and where sending the women money after they returned home. Some of the women have more then 1 man sending them money, the 1 story I got was the girls worked in a bar and the owner of the bar helped send the emails and then got a percentage of the money they women received. Older men who go to Thailand and think young pretty women love them are looking for a loss in the size of their wallets and many heartaches. These women have played this game for a long time and they are good at it, do the men actually think these girls are sitting at home while they send them money? These women are out looking for another man to set up in their trap. Men who mistake lust for love, or think the Thai girl they are with them love them for who they are should think twice as some see them as a cash flow or they see marriage as a way out of poverty. I am sorry for what has happened to you but you put your own foot in it when you asked her to marry you and now you will have to live with it. Sad to say you are not the first and you surely are not the last who has had this happen.