Any middle class-educated Thai can spot -what type of the girl (nice girl or prositute ) they come into contact with, by observing these girls' manner, their choices of words of pidgin English they using, their shallow thought etc.
The ways they carry themselves give dreath away.
I see THAIS as the U.S. used to be in the pre 1960's when it comes to skin color. In the U.S., ANYONE darked-skin, even white farmers and country folk, were deemed to be dumb-azzed, uneducated, trash. I believe Thais suffer from someth similar beliefs and never had a "SAY IT LOUD--I'M BLACK AND I'M PROUD" revolution.(In Thai's case, I guess it would be "say it loud, I'm brown and I'm proud.)
So, I would say that Thais are about 40 years behind in the acceptance of skin color when compared to the Western world. I notice how some Thai people here in the U.S. will wear jackets in the hot summertime and don't like convertabile cars.(LOL)
Unfortunately, Thai treatment of people based on skin color also backfires on them.
Here's a personal story. I have first-hand experience with Thai bigotry in matters of love. Two years ago, I began dating an educated, Thai gal here in the U.S. Her family lives in Bangkok and is quite well off. I was nothing but a gentleman (and still am). We went on several dates and I THOUGHT we were growing closer and becoming more than friends. Mind you, I was seeking relationship and sex was the furtherest thing from my mind.
Well, well , well what did she do? One of my white colleagues, perhaps the ugliest white guy at the work place, started helping her with her graduate classes in math. This guy also is a womanizer, something I'm not,(wow, a black guy that's not a womanizer , imagine that). His m.o. was to move in with any woman he meets and live off of them. SO-OOO, he did JUST THAT two years ago. The thai gal broke off the relationship with me after our last date during the week of Christmas two years ago and she told me "Thanks for the dates and HAVE A NICE LIFE".
And now, they're in Thailand this week getting married. HE DIDN'T EVEN PAY FOR THE MARRIAGE DOWRY ---LOL. She is taking $10,000 of her OWN MONEY to present to her father (don't ask me how I found out but OOOH, I wish I could tell her father).
When I used to date her, she would tell me that I was just like ALL OTHER BLACK guys---wanting to get someone pregnant and use my woman's money. I had never did anything to indicate such things and I never knew why such behavior was exhibited by her. As I said, I'm not the "typical" black guy who was looking to get laid.
I got into a fuss with her and she threatened to ruin my name by screaming in public that I would take care of her and our babies---quite craaaazzzy but just more evidence of how Thais think of black men.
BUT THE WEIRD THING now is that she calls my phone and hangs up on me. I've had my cell phone off this whole week of Christmas because of the stupid calls I'm now getting from Thailand. I believe she realizes that she made a big, big mistake based solely on the color of my skin.
I'm pretty sure that similar situations are happening all the time with various Thai women. I feel quite sorry for Thais in general. As for me, I adore Thai culture but I'm quite suspious of Thai women after my heart-breaking.
Too bad that you didn't get to see the other Thais in other parts of the U.S. ( Florida, Key West, Hawaii ?) who always wear ( nice tailored) Tank-Tops with walking shorts. Our cars have sun-roofed ..The last one was a convertabled.
We have the same motto as the late billionair Greek shipping tycoon - Aristotle Onassis, once claimed...... " Tan means you can afford where the sun is."
Another Thai in the U.S.
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