Getting Married In Thailand

[Tannie]

My country and people don't like other country people to look down thai girl's image.

RIM, sorry with you that you will not have nice thai friends who are girls ! becasue of your own thought. Pls do not conclude all 100% from 0.00000001% that you experienced !

[BSmith]

All,


My Thai GF and I have been living 2 Gether for 3 Months and although we have our probs if she willing to change from Bar Girl we may have the Roots for a succesfull relationship.
My GF Friends on the other hand are what all other websites are talking about "Money Grabbing Shits with hearts of stone".
The things my eyes and ears have seen scare the life out of me, remember these people can turn their feelings on and off like a Light switch and would think nothing of shagging some other guy for big money "4000 Baht".
My advice; keep Bar Girls at arms length at least whilst they prove their credentails to behave themselves, and always attempt to find the older wiser Bar Girl "28+" otherwise you will be used as a means of free food and ATM Services.

Applogies for any older guys, don't try it and stick to the rule of the three F's.

[hahaha]

My advise is to just keep relation without marriage registration or things.
you gonna have problem later.
this is my real,honest advise to any foreigners. chatting and making love is no problem. but after marriage all problems comes at once and you can not help but send her back. that is all.

[jay]

I'm happy to hear somebody talk about nice thing to thai girl but someone say something not nice about thai girl please understand everyone it's not same....JAY

[JORDI]

MAYBE MAYBE from you can to think about exist more diferent age, maybe
and remenber about your country:

a study makes in the United Kingdom on the children 50% of the children are not of its parents of marriages of men and English women. You think who everybody or paises is like England, that is going of sexual tourists and to consume drugs already alcohól since they do in Spain.
ok maybe mayde MR. RIM

[randomwolf]

Hi,
I'm from the uk living in Pattaya and want to know what i have to do to get married here. What paperwork do i need and so on. Do i have to register the marriage with british embassy in bangkok? And then once i've got married how do i go about getting her a visa to visit the uk

[Robert]

Let me see if I got this right.
You just got to Pattaya from the UK. This may be your first visit. You met a girl, fell in love, and now you want to bring her back to the UK. You also want the posters on this board to give you all the advice necessary, marriage instructions, visa instructions, etc etc etc.
Sorry if I am harsh but I am only trying to save you from yourself.
1)Do your own homework. Do not expect others to do everything for you. If you still have questions, post them. We will do the best to respond correctly.
2)Read, study the culture, check into your wife's background. Listen to the experienced posters on this board. Learn from them and learn from their mistakes.
3)Slow down
4)Slow down
5)Slow down

[colin howard]

hi rob,i suppose we,re all much wiser with the benifit of hindsight ,but as the old saying go,s" fools rush in were angels fear to tread!!,"springs to mind ,also the song from queen ''AND ANOTHER ONE BITES THE DUST" regards ,colin

[speedtrip]

just thought id say everything went really well, married in thailand, she came over last year and expecting baby next year .... we get on like a house on fire ... think we are really lucky .... aprt from living in UK that is

[Danny]

For all of you guys out there who have had bad experiences stop and think about what your saying to these guys. These guys will be more determined to go and get married to a Thai girl. All I would like to say is ive been with maybe 30 thai girls and yes nearly all from bars and every one of them have many boyfriends. Infact many married women who have everything from there husbands also sleep around. I believe that Thai women generally wouldnt settle down with a ferang for love and that there are too many cultural differences but hey if you are willing to risk everything you have and your dignity for this then you're more gutsy than me. Oh yeh and a girl can be miles away from any bar or never even worked in one and ive met a few and many have the same traits. I have a few thai girl friends who I speak to and they tell me the reality behind it which is very devious but hey id do it if i could. Many thick lonely ferangs with too much money to spend i say take it all girls they deserve it!!!! A decent Thai girl would stay well clear of a ferang and his funny ways!! the greatest line ive heard a hundred times from guys is my ones different hahaha oh really so why did she make eyes at me when you went to the toilet and why did she sleep with someone i know last night??? If you want guys as a test i'll come try sleep with her and see how she reacts you'd be sooooooo shocked!!